Personality and Personality Development:
​ Bad Traits that Are Good

There are a number of traits that most people see as bad that can actually be a good thing. When you are learning more about personality types and personal development, you will find that the traits that you try to avoid are ones that can actually be beneficial to you. Knowing these traits will help you to create a personal development plan that is based on your personality type.  This is one of the #1 most comprehensive Psychology Books ever written, and it's free on Kindle (Get a copy, because it's like a Masters Degree wrapped-up into a single book).  However, I recommend that you upgrade to the Print edition, because that copy comes with images.

You Are Messy

Some people view messiness and laziness and a lack of productivity, but this is a common myth. In fact, many people who tend to be on the messy side are usually those who are better at taking risks and more creative. Of course, you want to make sure that you do not leave things like food as part of the mess since this can be a hazard to your health. You also want to make sure that you can at least find the important things that you are looking for. Just balance your messiness and you will get the best results.

You Are Selfish

Most people hear the word selfish and automatically equate it to negative things, but some level of selfishness can actually be a good thing. In fact, most people should be a little more selfish because if you are not taking care of yourself, you are not able to really give parts of yourself to other people. Being a little selfish can also help you to get more done. Just make sure that you are balancing the time for yourself and the time with other people. This ensures that you are also a priority in your life.

You Have an Ego

It is often said that people who have an ego also tend to be jerks, but this is only true for those with a heavy ego. Having a bit of an ego shows confidence and you surely know how critical confidence is to your being happy and fulfilled in life.

You Are Shy

Shyness is not a bad thing and you can actually learn to work with it. Remember that being a shy person does not mean that you are a weak person. In fact, people who have a bit of shyness tend to be good listeners and great friends to those who they care about. Shyness also tends to ensure that a person is more reflective and this means that they see things and are better are recognizing negative things about themselves. Of course, shy people also have a tendency to be effective observers.

You Are Easily Distracted

Everyone would love to be even more productive, but if you get distracted sometimes, this is not always a bad thing. In fact, people who tend to get distracted easily are often more creative. It helps you to see alternative ways of doing things that others often miss.

You Are Cynical

You are critical of the world and this can draw some negative comments from some people. However, being cynical also means that you tend to be more rational and practical. Those who are a bit cynical are usually those who also do not fall for scams.

You Are Neurotic

If being a little neurotic is something you possess, take advantage of it. In moderate cases, this trait makes it easier for you do deal with various anxieties and stresses better than other people. You also have a greater chance of being successful with this trait.

You Are Sensitive

If you are a sensitive person, you might feel like you need to thicken your skin, but wait a minute. Being able to relate to others and feel what others are feeling can actually be a good thing. Sensitive people tend to be able to relate to all types of people.

You Are Lazy

A little laziness means that you are relaxed and not feeling stressed. It can also help to motivate you and it gives you time to think of new ideas and ways of doing things. In fact, laziness can lead to ingenuity.

Knowing these traits, you will now find it easier to work with your personality type and create an effective personal development plan. Use this information to know how these traits that are normally seen as bad can actually benefit you. In fact, if you have these traits, it is best to embrace them and use them to your advantage. This helps you to live a happier and more fulfilled life.

References:

http://healthland.time.com/2013/01/04/our-personalities-are-constantly-changing-even-if-we-think-theyre-not/

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