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Your relationship is constantly evolving and transforming and this means that both partners need to do the same thing. One of the most intimate parts of your relationship is the spirituality that you both share. Each of you feels your spirituality in a different way and this is perfectly okay. There is no need to agree on all aspects of spirituality because it is a very individual type of connection. However, you can work together to enhance your spirituality so that you can share your experience with each other and work toward a deeper relationship.
Be Your Own Expectations
You should only expect from your partner what you expect from yourself. This ensures that you and your partner are on an equal playing field and that you see each other as equals. This also works to ensure that both of you are not expecting the other to be more than you are. This is important because everyone has flaws and instead of putting a negative focus on them, they should be celebrated. This also allows you to celebrate your own flaws so that they do not stop you from forming a deeper bond with your partner.
Commit to Something Higher
Most people believe that there is something out there that is bigger than themselves. Now, this does not mean that you are committing to a specific religious God if religion is something that the two of you do not believe in. Remember that spirituality and religion are two very different things and you do not need one to have the other. If both of you look outside the box and see something bigger at play, be in the science of the universe or a specific religion, it allows you to get to a deeper path in your relationship so you can start your spiritual evolution.
Take the Time to Meditate Together
Meditation is one of the most effective ways to enhance your spirituality and your connection with your partner. Meditation does not have to take long and it is something that the two of you can do in just 10 to 15 minutes. The whole point is to clear your head and put your focus on the here and now. You want to let your mind wander to see what is truly lying in your subconscious. Once you are done meditating, take a few minutes for each partner to discuss their experience to create a deeper connection by learning what is in each other’s subconscious.
Forget Your Past Relationships
This journey is all about you, who you are now and who you are sharing this journey with. Both of you need to cleanse yourselves of past relationships because the only one that matters right now is the one that you are currently in. You need to put your energy and focus in the present because taking this spiritual journey does take time and energy. Both partners need to be focused on each other. What happened in the past happened and remember that you cannot do anything about it except accept it and move on to the better things that are to come.
Get Physical on a Daily Basis
Partners can make the deepest connections when they get physical activity together. Go for walks, play sports together or anything else that gets the heart rate up. Just make sure that whatever activity you choose is something that both of you can do simultaneously. You want to focus on each other’s company during the activity.
Embrace the Changes that Are Coming
When you are working to heighten your spirituality, you have to know that changes are coming. Do not be afraid of these changes because they will be positive. Make sure that you embrace them and know that whatever they may be that they are meant to make you a more spiritual person as an individual and as a partner.
You can see that embracing your spirituality is something that will help to enhance your relationship and make it deeper and more intimate. Both partners should be open about their spirituality and work on it together and apart. This allows both of you to get to the level that you are comfortable at individually and as a couple. How you approach your spirituality is something that you will agree on as a couple. Remember that this is something that allows you to get a deeper understanding of each other and each other’s beliefs.